The Biggest Worship Mistake Ever

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Everyone, everywhere seems to have an extremely detailed opinion of what or how worship is supposed to be.  Interestingly enough, most of these opinions do not refer to true worship in a biblical sense, but are more about music style, sermon methodology, tradition (or the absence thereof), and permissible clergy clothing.

However, when Isaiah saw the Lord in Isaiah 6, he experienced the greatness of God, realized the extent of his own sinfulness, and witnessed his sin being atoned for.  The end result of his worship experience was when Isaiah said “Here am I, send me.”

God shaped us after Himself so that we could experience His presence and accomplish His purposes.  When we realize who He is and all that He has done for us, our only reasonable response to Him is worship and absolute surrender.

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Real Friends

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I went to a very small high school.  There were only 50 students in my graduating class.  I knew everyone and everyone knew me.  Even though there were 50 of us, we were more than classmates.  We were friends, at least on the surface.

During my lunch breaks of high school, however, I went to sit with my real friends.  There, on the same concrete benches everyday, I joined with a smaller group made up of band geeks, drama nerds, teacher’s pets, and journalism brainiacs.  We were more than friendly acquaintances.  We had been to each other’s homes.  We had eaten with each other’s families.  We shared an identity.  We were on the same team.  We were all friends.

However, my best friend in high school was Steven.  We did everything together. From band trips to drama club plays to church youth activities, we were there together.  We shared our hurts, fears, hopes, and dreams with each other.  Even after graduation, we stayed in touch.  When he was married in Arizona, I sang in his wedding.  When I was married in Arkansas, he served as an usher.  When he was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Disease in his twenties, he called me.  When my wife and I lost a baby to miscarriage in my thirties, I called him.  When he became the pastor of a church, I did a music and drama presentation for his congregation.  When Katrina struck New Orleans, he brought water and relief supplies to mine.  Today, we still visit, text and call each other from time to time.  Steven is my real friend.

Being real friends with someone is a lot of work.  It means being honest and open with them when you would rather be shallow and superficial.  It means being sincerely happy about the good things that happen to them even when you wish it would have happened to you.  It means making an effort to spend time with them even when the pressures of life and work make it extremely difficult.  It means getting up in the middle of the night or leaving in the middle of a meeting when they call.  It means sharing and celebrating the joys of life together.  It means experiencing and mourning the disasters of life together.  That’s what it means to be real friends.

How many real friends do you have?

Late Night Frustration

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There I was, once again, working long into the night, angry that my ministry project wasn’t producing the results I expected.  In frustration, I threw up my hands and cried out, “God, what am I doing wrong?”

That’s when, in my head, I heard a whisper say, “Ask Me for help.”

Why do we do it?  Why do we spend countless hours working on ministry projects, seasonal productions, mission trips, evangelism strategies, small group trainings, and worship planning meetings without asking for God’s favor?  Why don’t we ask Him to establish the work of our hands?

We all make this mistake on an almost daily basis.  We get so busy serving the Lord that we fail to ask Him, the all-knowing Creator God, to guide us in the work that we are doing.  We simply forget to ask Him to bless the work of our hands, minds, and voices.  In other words, we neglect to involve Him in the process of our ministry projects and processes.  Why do we do this?

Let the favor of the Lord our God be on us; establish the work of our hands-establish the work of our hands!  Psalm 90:17 HCSB

It’s time for us to ask His forgiveness.  It’s time that we asked Him for His favor.  It’s time that we trust Him to guide us once again.

Lord, forgive us when we forget You.  May we find favor in Your eyes.  Will You please establish the work of our hands?

Why I Decided to Try the 10k for Pink Training App

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On Friday morning, I ran my first 5k, practically by accident.  I spent 8 weeks training for it with the C25k (Couch to 5k) App.  I finished it just in time for the New Orleans Crescent City Classic Run, but was not able to participate.  Since the app had several practice sessions included after graduation, I decided to continue to train.  It was raining outside, so I went to my local gym to run on the treadmill.  As my run neared the 35 minute mark, I realized that if I ran for another 10 minutes, I would hit the 3.106 miles or 5k.  So I did it.

Today, I walked out of my home, fully intending to continue the practice sessions.  But when I clicked on the App, it took me back to the first session.  I didn’t want to continue that session, so on the spur of the moment, I clicked on the 10k App ad, which I’ve been wondering about for a couple of weeks.  So, I guess I’m now training for a 10k.

If you see me past out on the side of road, please honk and try to raise me back to consciousness.

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The Joy and Pain of Finding Gray Hair

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Bill Cosby once said that Gray hair is God’s graffiti.  If that’s true, then the Lord has been hanging around my head while I sleep because I’ve definitely been marked here recently.

It didn’t bother me so much until other people began noticing and commenting.  Even the young lady who cuts my hair said to me, “Oh, Mr. John!  Look at all the gray hair on your head!  You must be getting old!”  I thanked her for the kind observation and informed her that although it was appreciated, it wasn’t necessary to add the Mr. honorific title when speaking my name.

I read today in Proverbs that gray hair is a glorious crown.  I’m not sure that I would call it glorious, but it does change a few things.  The gradual graying (or whitening in my case) of my hair means that I’ve been around the block a few times (or maybe even several times).  It means that I’ve made some hefty mistakes and lived through them.  It means that I’ve had my share of joys and victories and an equal number of hurts and defeats.  It means that, believe it or not, I’ve attained at least a little bit of wisdom that I am now responsible to pass on to the generations that follow me.

Gray hair is a glorious crown; it is found in the way of righteousness.  Proverbs 16:31 HCSB

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Is There Anything Truly Unique About Christianity?

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Phillip Yancey, in his book What’s So Amazing About Grace, tells a story about C.S. Lewis and grace.  During a British conference on comparative religions, experts were discussing whether there was any belief that was truly unique to Christianity.  Creation, incarnation, and resurrection were quickly eliminated because of similar examples in other religions.  C.S. Lewis wandered into the room and enquired as to the topic of conversation.  When told about the debate, without hesitation, Lewis replied, “Oh, that’s easy.  It’s grace.”

Grace is so simple that it baffles the experts.  Grace is what makes Christianity unique.  Because of it, we have the opportunity to know Jesus as Savior and Friend.  Grace helps us understand the difference between happiness and joy.  It allows us to conquer all of our fears.  There is nothing we can do to earn grace and there is no way that we can destroy it.  In Ephesian 1:5-6, the Apostle Paul wrote:  He predestined us to be adopted through Jesus Christ for Himself, according to His favor and will, to the praise of His glorious grace that He favored us with in the Beloved.  

 

Grace is free and yet it is also priceless.  It truly is amazing.

 

Unusual Easter Traditions


I live in New Orleans.  Recently, I heard about the annual Easter “Keg” Hunt sponsored by a local bar.  (No, I didn’t attend)  Even though I’m not a drinker and don’t encourage alcohol consumption, I have to admit that I was impressed with the creativity.  It got me wondering about other Easter traditions around the world.  Here are just a few that you might find interesting.

In Finland, children often decorate themselves with scarves and sooty faces and go begging in the streets with broomsticks and willow twigs.

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Many years ago in Bermuda, a local teacher attempted to explain the ascension of Jesus to his students by making a cross shaped kite and flying it with his students.  Ever since, families in Bermuda celebrate Good Friday by flying handmade kites.

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In 966 AD, Polish Prince Miesko was baptized on Easter Monday.  In honor of that event, Polish boys drench people with cool buckets of water.  It is believed by some that young unwed ladies who are drenched will marry within the next year.

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In Colombia, people lay off the chocolates on Easter Sunday.  Instead, they enjoy a traditional dinner of iguana, turtle, and large rodents.

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On the Greek island of Corfu, people throw clay pots out of their windows on Holy Saturday.  Some say the tradition comes from the Venetians, who used to throw out old pots on New Year’s day.

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In some areas of Portugal, Spain, and Mexico, a stuffed character representing Judas receives a fake trial, is hung by the neck, and then is burned on or around Easter.  Often, the Judas “dummy” is stuffed with fireworks so he blows up.  Effigies of unpopular politicians are sometimes hung next to Judas.

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The more that I think some of these traditions are unusual, the more I wonder if what I do to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus is found unusual by others around the world.

Happy Easter!

Life of Pi – What Is It Really About?

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The world isn’t just the way it is. It is how we understand it, no? And in understanding something, we bring something to it, no?  Doesn’t that make life a story?

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Synopsis

Life of Pi, by Yann Martel, is the story of Piscene Patel, or Pi, the son of a zookeeper from Pondicherry, India.  Pi is the lone survivor of a shipwreck in the Pacific Ocean.  Pi initially shares his lifeboat with an orangutan, a hyena, a zebra, and a Bengal tiger.  Before long, only Pi and the tiger, name Richard Parker, are left alive.  Over their 227-day ordeal, Pi gains dominance over Richard Parker and maintains it until the lifeboat finally makes landfall on the west coast of Mexico.  life-of-pi

In the book, Pi shares his story with two representatives of the Japanese government who are searching for the cause of the sinking ship.  When they disbelieve his outlandish story, Pi offers them a second, boring yet believable story that parallels the first.  He tells them that they can choose the elaborate, yet irrational story through faith, or they may select the rational, extremely believable version.  In the end, they choose the irrational story, which brings you back to Pi’s name, an irrational number.

Pi and Religion

Pi’s irrational understanding of faith is seen as he decides to follow Hinduism, Christianity and Islam simultaneously.  He uses elements of the three religions to help him through the issues that plague him during his ordeal at sea.  Throughout his experience, he credits Hinduism for introducing him to the supernatural, Christianity for acquainting him with the love of God, and Islam for familiarizing him with the daily discipline of intentional prayer.

What It’s Really About (in my opinion)

Even though Life of Pi contains elements from Hinduism, Christianity, and Islam, it’s my opinion that the book is not about religion.  It’s a book about how our lives are filled with stories.  Everyone, everywhere, is a storyteller, relaying the experiences of life in story form.  The book suggests that people use stories to process reality, helping us categorize and compartmentalize the chaotic events of our lives.  As Pi would seem to suggest, the approach we choose dictates our understanding of the world around us.  1353491113024.cached

I enjoyed the book Life of Pi and the movie interpretation.  It’s a good commentary on the stories of our lives.  However, it may confuse people about these three major religions.  No matter what Martel suggests, Pi was virtually a Hindu, adopting elements of the other religions into his Hinduism.  The book also tends to drag on in parts, tempting the reader to skim or quit reading.  The movie was very well done, staying true to the book for the most part.  However, it portrays Pi as much more of a rebellious and physically adventurous child than the book.

If you’ve read the book or seen the movie, I would be curious as to your comments.

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Intruder in My House

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I woke early this morning and decided to go for a run.  As I dressed and reached for my keys, I felt something disturbing.  I realized that I was not alone.  Then I saw him.  He shook his long pointed finger directly in my face.  I instantly recognized him.

How could I possibly forget him?

I first met him as a child when a bully threatened to beat me up after school.  Later, he sat beside me in college while I took my exams, causing me unfounded anxiety.  And he visited me as an adult, right before I made a bold career move.  Sometimes, he stops by and I don’t see him, but I see what he’s left behind:  broken dreams, forsaken promises, hopelessness, and even despair.

He showed up again this morning in my home unannounced.

I looked him right in the eye and said, “Hello, Fear.”

He rolled his eyes and asked, “Just where do you think you are going?”

“Out for a run.”

“No, you’re not.”

“Why not?”

“Because if you walk out that door, you’ll never come back alive.”

“What do you mean?”

“Just what I said.  You walk out that door, you die.”

“I don’t believe you.”

“It doesn’t matter if you believe.  It’s going to happen.”

“You can’t frighten me.”

“Ha!  I’ve been paralyzing people for thousands of years.  You think you can avoid me?”

I looked down at the floor and held my keys tightly.  For a moment, I thought that maybe I should just wait until tomorrow to run.

“You know,” he said, “God would tell you the same thing.”

“What?” I asked.

“He would tell you exactly what I’m telling you.”

“No he wouldn’t,” I responded, suddenly defiant.  “He doesn’t give us a spirit of fear.  He gives us a spirit of power, love, and a sound mind.”

Fear raised an eyebrow.

“Are you certain?” he asked.

“More than anything,” I answered.  “You get out of my house.  I’m going for a run and you’re not welcome here.”

How To Run For 22 Minutes (Without Stopping) in 7 Easy Steps

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I’ve been using the App – C25KFree (Couch to 5K Free) for the past six weeks.  Today, I finished the day 3 workout of week 6, which includes 22 minutes of running without stopping.  In case you’re trying to do the same thing, here are 7 easy steps for running 22 minutes without stopping.  Enjoy.

Step #1 – Wake up in the morning, lay very still and listen intently for rain, snow, sleet, hail, a dense fog, mist, strong winds, mild winds, gentle breezes or anything uncontrollable that might keep you from having to get out of bed to exercise.

Step #2 – While still in bed, tell your wife that you are not in denial about not wanting to exercise.

Step #3 – Angrily roll out of bed, stumping the toes of your right foot on the hard wooden furniture that you insisted on buying fifteen years ago.

Step #4 – Have the following conversation with your wife:

You:  Honey, do you think I should just not exercise today?

Wife:  Why?

You:  My toes really hurt.

Wife:  What happened?

You:  I stubbed them on your furniture.

Wife:  My furniture?  You mean the bed?

You:  Yeah.

Wife:  You’re somehow suggesting that you stubbing your toe…

You:  (interrupting)  Toes!

Wife:  Ok.  You’re suggesting that you stubbing your “toes” on the bed is my fault.

You:  Yes.  If you hadn’t suggested this brand then we wouldn’t have all this hard wood in the house.

Wife:  Go exercise, you big baby.

You:  What?

Wife:  Go.

You:  Ok.

Step #5 – Cry

Step #6 – Change your clothes and walk out the door.

Step #7 – Put your headphones in, play some music, warmup for 5 minutes, then run (or jog) for 22 minutes without stopping.

Enjoy your workout!

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