Memorial Day in Aucoin

On a breezy Memorial Day morning, the small town of Aucoin prepared for its annual commemoration. Colorful flags waved gently in the wind, and the scent of blooming flowers filled the air. Children laughed and played, their innocence a reminder of the freedom fought for by so many.

At the center of town stood a weathered veterans’ memorial, its stone engraved with the names of soldiers from wars and conflicts who had given their all for their country. Among them was Sergeant James Frazier, an Aucoin native come local hero who left for war with a heart full of dreams yet returned only in the memories of those who loved him.

As the courthouse clock struck ten, townsfolk gathered for a solemn ceremony. Among them was Chelsea, James’ younger sister, now a mother herself. Her memories of her brother were vivid: the laughter they shared, the stories he told, the secrets they kept, each moment glowing like sunlight on a summer’s day. She recalled the day he enlisted, how proud and terrified she felt watching him march away.

After a stirring rendition of patriotic favorites, the crowd grew silent. Slowly, Mayor Frederick Johnson stepped forward, honoring not just James, but all who had served. “Today,” he said reverently, “We remember their sacrifices, the families left behind, and the dreams unfulfilled. We stand united in gratitude.”

As he spoke, Chelsea held her young daughter, Emma, close.

“What’s he talking about, Mama?” asked Emma, who was starting to get restless.

Chelsea leaned down and whispered, “He’s talking about your Uncle James, sweet girl.”

“He was your brother, wasn’t he?”

“Yes, he was,” said Chelsea, her eyes tearing up slightly. “He fought for our freedom, baby girl. His name is on the monument.”

Emma looked at her mother with innocence. “We should say thank you?”

Tears glistened in Chelsea’s eyes as she nodded. After the ceremony, they walked to the memorial, flowers in hand. Emma knelt, placing her petals gently at the base. “Thank you for keeping us safe,” she said softly, her small voice carrying the weight of gratitude.

In that moment, a gentle breeze scattered the flowers, forming a colorful carpet at the foot of the memorial—a reminder that love and sacrifice unite generations. Later that evening, as the sun dipped below the horizon, the town of Aucoin lit candles, illuminating the names engraved on the stone, shining brightly like stars in the night.

Through their tears and laughter, the town of Aucoin honored those who gave their everything. They remembered that freedom isn’t free but comes at a price while simultaneously bringing hope and unity for a brighter tomorrow. Every heart beat in gratitude, and every story told echoed the eternal spirit of freedom.

*Image courtesy of Aaron Burden

One Minute of Silence

Some of my earliest memories involve cemeteries. I’m not talking about the country cemeteries where many of my relatives are buried. I’m also not talking about the above ground cemeteries of New Orleans surrounded by mausoleums and interstates. I’m talking about the cemeteries on various military bases with seemingly endless rows of whitewashed headstones marking the graves of men and women who had given their all in service to our country, to my country.

For many, Memorial Day weekend is the unofficial beginning of summer. It’s a time for picnics, day trips, Blockbuster movies, or furniture sales. However, it means so much more than that, and it all started in a cemetery. In Charleston, South Carolina, during the Civil War, a few black residents organized a burial of deceased Union prisoners, built a fence around the site, and established a cemetery in their honor. On May 1, 1865, they held an event at the site, complete with a parade, singing, scripture reading, and a picnic.

Over the next several years, groups gathered at cemeteries to honor and “decorate” the graves of both Union and Confederate soldiers who had given their lives in the Civil War. It’s been reported that General Ulysses S. Grant led an observance at Arlington National Cemetery on Many 30, 1873. Over 5,000 people attended to show respect as the orphaned children and widows of soldiers and sailors killed during the war placed flowers and small American flags on the graves of the honored deceased.

Originally known as “Decoration Day” because of the decorated graves and tombstones, Memorial is now celebrated on the last Monday of May. In 2000, the U.S. Congress and the President signed into law the National Moment of Remembrance Act. This encourages all Americans to pause at 3pm local time for one minute of silence. 

I’m going to do my best to observe that law this Memorial Day. And during that moment of silence, I’m going to remember the oceans of tombstones of my childhood and thank God for those who gave their lives for our country.

* Photo courtesy of Chad Stembridge

**Thanks, Dad, for serving in the U.S. Marines for 22 years.