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Palm Sunday – The Triumphal Entry (a devotion)

As Jesus and the disciples approached Jerusalem, they came to the town of Bethphage on the Mount of Olives. Jesus sent two of them on ahead. “Go into the village over there,” He said. “As soon as you enter it, you will see a donkey tied there, with its colt beside it. Untie them and bring them to Me. If anyone asks what you are doing, just say, ‘The Lord needs them,’ and he will immediately let you take them… 

The two disciples did as Jesus commanded. They brought the donkey and the colt to Him and threw their garments over the colt, and He sat on it. Most of the crowd spread their garments on the road ahead of Him, and others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road. Jesus was in the center of the procession, and the people all around Him were shouting, “Praise God for the Son of David! Blessings on the one who comes in the name of the Lord! Praise God in highest heaven!”

The entire city of Jerusalem was in an uproar as He entered. “Who is this?” they asked. And the crowds replied, “It’s Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.” (Matthew 21:1-3, 6-11)

As Jesus rode into Jerusalem, people spread their cloaks before Him, acknowledging His royalty. On that donkey’s colt, He made public His claim as Messiah, fulfilling Zechariah 9:9 – “Rejoice, O people of Zion! Look, your King is coming to you. He is righteous and victorious, yet He is humble, riding on a donkey- riding on a donkey’s colt.” Many of the people, however, thought of Jesus as an earthly king who would lead them in a revolt against Rome. When Jesus did not meet their expectations, many of them turned on Him, trading their praise for condemnation – their worshipful “hosannas” for angry cries of “Crucify Him!”

The triumphal entry is the story of a King who came on a donkey instead of a horse. The truth is that Jesus Christ comes not to conquer by force as an earthly king but by love, grace, mercy, and personal sacrifice. His kingdom is not one of armies and splendor but of lowliness and servanthood. He comes not to conquer kingdoms and nations but hearts and minds. He brings peace not through might or politics but through reconciliation with God. The type of triumphal entry Jesus wants to make is one into our hearts where He reigns supremely over our lives in righteousness, peace, justice, and unity.

Prayer: Lord, You are the great King over all of the earth. As we remember the happenings of Palm Sunday, help us to invite You to make a triumphal entry into our hearts and lives as we continually humble ourselves before You in worship. In Jesus’ name, Amen. 

Followup Activity: Read Matthew 21:1-11 and reflect on the ways the people honored Jesus as He entered Jerusalem. Then, in your journal or on a piece of paper, make a list of all of the ways we can honor the Lord today. If you’re leading your family through this activity, consider leading them through a time of prayer where you engage in some of the worship practices you’ve listed on your paper. 

* Image courtesy of Tim Mossholder

* This devotion is part of an 8-day Holy Week devotional titled RENEWED. It is available as a free download from Celebration Church in New Orleans at http://www.celebrationchurch.org/library

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Creative Good Friday Service (2025)

This is a basic plan for the Good Friday service we’re doing at Celebration Church in New Orleans. I hope you find it useful for your church.

Items Needed 

  • Blank piece of paper (¼ sheet) for every congregation member
  • One large cross 
  • Three large nails (approximately nine inches long)
  • One oversized hammer (short, miniature sledgehammer is acceptable)
  • 1-4 regular-sized hammers for leaders to nail sins to the cross
  • Smaller nails for nailing paper to cross

Order of Worship:

  • Welcome
  • Short Giving Talk and Offering Prayer 
    • Say something brief like this – “Our ushers are preparing now to receive the offering. We’re thankful for all of those who give, whether online or here in person. Your giving makes a difference. It’s Good Friday, the day we remember what Jesus did for us on the cross. He gave His life for us not because we’ve earned or deserved it but because He loves us. The Lord gave so freely to us that it’s easy to give back to Him and that’s what we’re doing now before we continue with the rest of the service. You can give using the offering envelopes or online at celebrationchurch.org. Let’s pray and then we’ll receive the offering.”
  • The Two Gardens Video – (During the Video, offering is taken and the cross is placed center stage.)

Good Friday Sermon

  • Spoken transition – Say something like, “Jesus said, “Not my will, but Yours be done.” His sacrifice on the cross was unprecedented in its selflessness, embodying a love that transcends human understanding by willingly taking on the sins of all humanity. This profound act of grace offered redemption and hope, transforming the narrative of sin and separation from God into one of reconciliation and eternal life. Through His death and resurrection, Jesus redefined the concept of sacrifice, establishing a new covenant that continues to inspire and change lives across generations. Simply put, He died so that we might live. This week, we’ve followed Jesus on a journey from His triumphal entry to His cleansing of the temple. From His disagreements with the Pharisees to His anointing at Bethany. We’ve reflected on how He washed the feet of His disciples only to have one of them betray Him. He was arrested, tried, and condemned to death. Tonight, we’re going to reflect on His crucifixion and the bloody price He paid for us. 
  • THE MOCKING – The Bible says, “The soldiers took Jesus into the courtyard of the governor’s headquarters and called out the entire regiment. They dressed Him in a purple robe, and they wove thorn branches into a crown and put it on His head. Then they saluted Him and taunted, “Hail! King of the Jews!” And they struck Him on the head with a reed stick, spit on Him, and dropped to their knees in mock worship.” (Mark 15:16-19)
  • Beyond the physical pain of the crown of thorns and their blows, further humiliation was heaped on Jesus as the soldiers dropped to their knees in “mock worship.” 
  • Psalm 95:6 says, “Come, let us worship and bow down. Let us kneel before the Lord our maker.” This is not what the soldiers were doing. Instead, they were mocking the Lord and the worship of Him. Worship is serious business to God, and He doesn’t like it when people take it lightly or make fun of it.
  • Before we judge the soldiers too harshly, let’s take a minute and consider when we’ve come before the Lord with a lack of sincerity in our hearts. Have we possibly grown so accustomed to approaching His throne with boldness that we now approach it with apathy? 
  • Before we move on, take a moment and ask the Lord to forgive you for when you’ve been guilty of your own form of mock worship.
  • THE CROSS (Have volunteers stand the cross up or lift it up where people can see it. You may have to lean it against the wall or the stage.)
  • “When they were finally tired of mocking Him, they took off the purple robe and put His own clothes on Him again. Then they led Him away to be crucified. A passerby named Simon, who was from Cyrene, was coming in from the countryside just then, and the soldiers forced him to carry Jesus’ cross. And they brought Jesus to a place called Golgotha, which means ‘place of the skull.’” (Mark 15:19-22) 
  • The Cross Was Large and Heavy – After His terrible beating, the weight of the cross must have been too much for Jesus because Simon of Cyrene had to help Him. It’s believed that the cross probably weighed around 165 lbs and was most likely eight to twelve feet high with a cross beam about six feet wide. Little is known about what type of tree Jesus was crucified on. Some legends say it was the dogwood tree, but this is doubtful. The fact is, it doesn’t really matter what type of tree the cross was made from. What matters is what happened on that cross. (Expound if needed)
  • We Don’t Worship the Cross. It was simply the instrument of death where Jesus was crucified. But we do worship the One who hung on that cross. The One who gave His life for us on the cross has transformed a symbol of death into a symbol of Divine Love. 
  • THE NAILS  – Then, the unthinkable happened. We read in the Bible “The soldiers nailed Him to the cross…” (Mark 15:24)
  • (Take the three nails and drive them into the cross where His hands and feet would have been – The point is to make noise with the hammer and nails. You can combine the hammering with the sharing of the next part if you want.)
  • The Nails Were Painful – The soldiers actually took each of His hands and physically nailed them to the cross, maybe through His wrists so He wouldn’t pull away. Then, they did the same thing to each of His feet. The pain of the nails going through His body and the blood pouring from these wounds were amplified by the weight of His body pulling against the nails. (Expound if necessary)
  • The Nails are Symbols of both Sin and Redemption – They represent the gravity of our sins, serving as a stark reminder of the pain and suffering caused by our disobedience. Yet, they also symbolize redemption, as Jesus willingly endured this torment to atone for our transgressions. We should all just take a minute and say, “Thank you, Jesus.”
  • Activity –(Have the people reflect on their own sins for which Jesus was crucified. Then, have them write them out on the pieces of paper they were given in their bulletin shells upon entering.) – Note: Have the people hold on to their papers after writing. We will use them again later in the service.
  • Pray and thank the Lord for the pain and suffering He endured for our redemption
  • HIS DEATH – The Bible continues, “It was nine o’clock in the morning when they crucified Him… At noon, darkness fell across the whole land until three o’clock. Then, Jesus called out with a loud voice, ‘Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani?’ which means ‘My God, my God, why have You forsaken Me?’ Then Jesus uttered another loud cry and breathed His last. And the curtain in the sanctuary of the Temple was torn in two, from top to bottom. When the Roman officer who stood facing Him saw how He had died, he exclaimed, ‘This man truly was the Son of God!’” (Mark 15:25, 33-39)
  • In the same moment when the Jewish leaders were rejoicing in the death of Jesus, this Roman centurion proclaimed with reverence the glory of Jesus. He proclaimed that Jesus was the Son of God, which drives home the words of Jesus to Nicodemus earlier in His ministry. He said, “For this is how God loved the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)
  • What This Means For Us – “You were dead because of your sins and because your sinful nature was not yet cut away. Then God made you alive with Christ, for He forgave all our sins. He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it to the cross. (Colossians 2:13-14)
  • Through Jesus, we have redemption as we release our sins to Him.
  • Share a Personal or Shared Testimony/Gospel Presentation
  • Ask the following Question: What sins do you need to release to Jesus tonight?
  • Decision Response Activity – (Have the people bring their papers on which they wrote their sins and bring them forward to leaders to nail them to the cross while also picking up their bread and juice for communion)
  • Lead the people through Communion
  • Closing

* Photo courtesy of Alicia Quan

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My Top Book Recommendations from 2024

A few years ago, I started an ongoing list of the books I read each year. I was surprised to learn that, on average, I read about 100 books each year. I know that sounds like a lot, but I don’t watch sports and I don’t have kids so there you go. Anyway, here are the top ten books I recommend from my reading in 2024. They are in no particular order of preference. I hope you find them helpful.

(Disclaimer: Please know that just because I read and enjoyed these books doesn’t mean I agree with the lifestyles or agendas of the authors. I just liked and learned from the books.)

Unbowed: A Memoir by Wangari Maathai – I found this book in Nairobi while on a trip to Kenya. It is an autobiography of Wangari Maathai, a Kenyan social, environmental, and political activist who founded the Green Belt Movement and won a Nobel Peace prize.

The Next Worship: Glorifying God in a Diverse World by Sandra Maria Van Postal – This book is about the growing trend of multicultural worship across the United States and around the world. Tremendous insight from a well read practitioner.

Teaching Across Cultures: Contextualizing Education for Global Mission by James E. Plueddemann – I know, the name is a handful in and of itself, but I found this textbook, which I read for a seminar, to be incredibly insightful for anyone leading in cross cultural teaching.

Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder – As a child, my family loved the Little House series starring Michael Landon and Melissa Gilbert. After all of these years, I found this a fun book for escape reading.

King: A Life by Jonathan Eig – Don’t let the size of this book intimidate you. It is well worth the read. This biography gave me a broader perspective of and a deeper appreciation for the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Bruce D. Perry and Oprah Winfrey – A friend recommended this book to me this past year, but I was hesitant to read it until I found it in a Little Free Library. It has great perspective on emotional healing. I love that the book moves the reader from asking people, “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”

Future Church: Seven Laws of Real Church Growth by Will Mancini and Cory Hartman – Ok, I have to admit, I didn’t want to like this book. Even though I don’t agree with everything written within regarding the church, I have gleaned so much from it over this past year. If you are involved in church leadership, this is an excellent read.

Right Color Wrong Culture: A Leadership Fable by Bryan Loritts – This book is a must read for anyone involved in multicultural or multiethnic church leadership. I heard Bryan Loritts speak at a conference after I read the book. I recommend the book and Bryan as a speaker.

High Road Leadership: Bringing People Together in a World that Divides by John C. Maxwell – I wish this book would have been required reading across the United States before this past presidential election. It’s one of the best leadership books I’ve ever read on bringing divided people together.

Not In It To Win It by Andy Stanley – I learn important lessons everytime I read something by Andy Stanley, even if I don’t always agree with him. This book helps the reader focus on what’s important, which by the way, isn’t always about winning.

Bonus – Karma by Boy George – Ok, I know what you’re thinking. Boy George? Yeah, I know, but I actually enjoyed this memoir by the artist and former lead singer of Culture Club. I found his narrative to be a good commentary with good insight on the culture of our day. Here’s a tip, if you have Spotify audiobooks, listen to it for further insight.

Happy reading.

Image courtesy of Drew Coffman

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“Jingle Bell Joy” Kid’s Christmas Object Lesson

Props Needed: Hand held jingle bells

(Gather kids around you, dialogue with them about what they want for Christmas, then move into the children’s sermon).

What kinds of sounds do you hear at Christmas? 

(listen for answers – they might say Christmas music, singing, shopping, traffic, etc…) 

I have one more sound for you to hear. 

(Pull your jingle bells out from a bag and ring it loudly)

These are jingle bells. What does it make you think of when you hear them ring? 

(Let one or two of the children answer) 

Some people think of the song, “Jingle bells.” Other people think of horses pulling sleighs through the snow. Other people think of Santa’s reindeer. All of these things are happy sounds for many people. 

Do you know what makes the sound of a jingle bell? There’s a small ball on the inside of this jingle bell and hits against the sides of the metal bell causing the sound. 

And what causes the bell to make the sound? (when it’s shaken).

So the sound is caused by something on the outside (the shaking) but it’s made by something on the inside (the ball). 

Even at a happy time like Christmas, life can sometimes shake us up. This happens when someone is mean to us or if we don’t get something we really want. Sometimes it might happen if we have to move from a house we really like or if we lose someone who is really close to us. 

One group of people who were shaken in the Bible were the shepherds. They were out in the fields in the middle of the night when an angel appeared to them and really scared them a lot. They were probably shaking with fear. But the Bible says that “the angel said to them, ‘Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people!’” (Luke 2:10)

What was the good news they were talking about? 

(Wait for a couple of answers) 

That’s right, the angel was talking about Jesus being born. That’s the best news anyone could ever hear because the Bible says Jesus “would save His people from their sins.” That’s a good reason for us to have joy, isn’t it?

Even now, when our lives are shaken, we may feel bad and quiet, but if we know Jesus, we can still ring with joy because Jesus lives inside us! 

Let me pray with you before you go back to your seats… 

(Depending on the kids, you may choose to have them pray with you or have one of them pray. After praying, send them back to their seats.)

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O Come All Ye Faithful – From Bonnie Prince Charlie to Twisted Sister

Adeste Fideles, is a Latin hymn translated O Come, All Ye Faithful. The official authorship has been given to John Francis Wade (1711-1786), whose name is included on most, if not all, of the earliest manuscripts. Even so, the lyrics and tune appear to be the result of a collaboration of several people over hundreds of years, although what we sing today is a 19th-century version of an 18th-century compilation.

Some historians believe Adeste Fideles is not actually about Christ, but is instead about Bonnie Prince Charlie, grandson of James II, England’s last Catholic king. In 1745, Bonnie Prince Charlie led a rebellion to restore the Catholic House of Stuart to the English throne. Fideles is believed to mean Faithful Catholic Jacobites. Bethlehem is also believed to be a term for England. If this is true, the song is a war cry shouting out, “Come and Behold Him, Born the King of the English.” 

More recently, others believe the 1980’s rock band Twisted Sister sampled the melody and chord structure of their hit, We’re Not Gonna Take It from O Come, All Ye Faithful. The melodies of the songs are very similar, but it’s purely coincidental. Jay Jay French, lead guitarist of Twisted Sister stated in a radio interview that the band discovered the similarities and recorded a version of O Come, All Ye Faithful for their Christmas album A Twisted Christmas. 

I don’t know about you, but I can ignore the possibility of O Come, All Ye Faithful having its origins with Bonnie Prince Charlie if it results in a song that God can use to get a rock group like Twisted Sister to sing “O Come, Let Us Adore Him, Christ the Lord!”

Click here to hear Adeste Fideles by Andrea Bocelli

Click here to hear O Come, All Ye Faithful by Tasha Cobbs

Click here to hear O Come, All Ye Faithful by Twisted Sister 

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“Like”

Are you ever confused by the texting “like” function?

I am.  

Sometimes it means the text is “liked” but often it is just an acknowledgement of what has been sent. 

A few months ago, I texted “I think I have Covid” to a friend (or former friend). He clicked like. 

😑 I guess I should be glad he didn’t click “love” which is a thing now.

I guess someone “loves” a text if they either truly “love” it, really “like” it, “like” it more than a regular “like,” or are overly emotional in general about acknowledging text messages.

Both “like” and “love” functions do quickly express emotions. However, if we’re all honest here, sometimes a “like” is just a short, curt answer meaning, “Ok, thanks, now shut up?”

“Likes” seem to have become a thing on social media. Society, even pastors and church leaders, seem bound by the approval generated by “likes.” On Facebook, the “like” is a thumbs up, on Instagram and TikTok, it’s a heart. Maybe it should be called “Insecuritygram.” 

My love language is “Words of Affirmation.” I admit that I smile when I see my posts being “liked,” especially by lots of people. I love seeing hearts and thumbs up emojis. Just like the rest of the world, I post and then check my posts to see how many people “like” what I’ve said. On the outside, I’m nodding my approval of their approval of my words. On the inside, I’m screaming, “They like me, they really, really like me!”

What we often don’t realize is that chasing after “likes” can be so devastating to our own self worth. We don’t realize that we’re setting ourselves up to be disappointed. 

Louie Giglio writes, “If we live for people’s approval, we will die by their rejection.” 

I think he’s right. If it would have been a social media post or text, I would have liked it. 

👍❤️

*Image courtesy of Jackson Sophat

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Night of Worship Outline based on Ephesians 3:14-21

Opening Worship Set and Prayer

  • Song
  • Song
  • Prayer – Inviting the presence of the Holy Spirit to lead us as we worship together 

Empowering Section (When we pray, God empowers us through His Holy Spirit)

  • Song – Holy Spirit, You Are Welcome Here  
  • Scripture and Sharing – “When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through His Spirit.” (Ephesians 3:14-16)
  • Prayer – Asking God to continue empowering us through His Holy Spirit

Understanding Section (When we pray, God gives us glimpses of His infinite love)

  • Song – How He Loves, Reckless Love, Goodness of God
  • Scripture – “Then Christ will make His home in your hearts as you trust in Him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is.” (Ephesians 3:17-18)
  • Prayer – Asking God to help us understand His love for us and for the world.

Experiencing Section (When we pray, we experience the love of Jesus and the power of God in our lives)

  • Song – Same God
    • Scripture – “May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God”. (Ephesians 3:19)
  • Prayer – Asking God to allow us to experience His love and power.

Accomplishing Section (When we pray, God allows us to see Him accomplish more than we can ever imagine)

  • Song – I Speak Jesus
  • Scripture – “Now all glory to God, who is able, through His mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Glory to Him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen.” (Ephesians 3:20-21)
  • Prayer – Asking God to continue to accomplish more than we can ask or think in our lives, our families, our church, and our country. 

Closing – Encourage the people to keep on praying because God can do miracles. 

Upbeat Closing Song

*Photo courtesy of Ben White

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Olympic Dreams

So here’s one more thing to consider when evaluating the 2024 Olympics… the absence of pickleball. 

Yeah, I know. I’m disappointed as well. 

If you’re like me, you turned around and noticed that suddenly, people everywhere were playing this unusual game. According to APP, the Association of Pickleball Professionals, 19% of adult Americans played pickleball at least once from August 2022 to August 2023. The report didn’t share how many of them gave up after their first match. 

Where did pickleball originate? I’m glad you asked. Retirepedia reports that pickleball began when three dads from Bainbridge Island, Washington invented a new game to amuse their children. They lowered a badminton net, tried a wiffle ball but settled on a Cosom Fun Ball. They created paddles from plywood from a neighbor’s shed. Legend has it that a dog named Pickles used to steal the game ball so they named the game after him. Others claim the game creators combined various sports into one which reminded them of a pickle boat crew where participants are selected from the unchosen oarsmen of other boats. My theory is that they first played the game using a pickle for the ball. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. 

Speaking of opinions on Pickleball, Bill Gates once shared, “Everyone from the super young to the super old can take part. It takes minutes to learn the basics, games are short, and all you need is a net, paddle, and ball to get started. It doesn’t take much skill to hit the ball, either, because it doesn’t move as fast as a tennis ball. The best thing about Pickleball, however, is that it’s just super fun.” 

Even though I often ignore the ramblings of PC users, Gates does seem to have a point about Pickleball. It is now played in over 60 countries around the world. However, despite its growing popularity, Pickleball is seen more as a recreational sport and its global recognition still leaves something to be desired. This may be why it’s not a current Olympic sport.

Will pickleball make it to the 2028 Olympics? Probably not. What about 2032 or 2036? Only time will tell. Maybe if it didn’t have such a stupid name…

*Image courtesy of Amada Ma

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55 and up

So, I recently turned 55, the legal speed limit in many areas. 

To celebrate, I decided to buy two new pairs of Levi’s, the jeans of my youth. However, my high school Levi’s were 501’s with the button fly. At my current age, that sounded dangerous somehow. So since I’m 55, I searched for Levi’s 550’s. Doing so seemed easier than researching the meanings of the jean numbers.

Buying “new” jeans at my age means a visit to my favorite thrift store which gives an even further discount to customers 55 and up (hence, my favorite). To my surprise, the first pair of jeans on the rack were Levi’s 550’s in my size. I know what you’re thinking. How could the jeans be “new” if I purchased them from a thrift store? I’m cheap, ok? Shut up.

However, there was only one pair of 550’s at the thrift store, so I went to a department store in search of a bargain. To protect the store’s identity, let’s call them J.C. Dollar’s. 

Once inside, I headed straight for the 80% off racks. I knew exactly how to find them because I’m old. You might be familiar with the discount racks at J.C.’s – they give a “discounted” price on long sleeve flannel shirts and woolen coats to customers in southern Louisiana in June. However, I also found a pair of Levi’s 550’s on the rack identical to my thrift store find. I say “Identical” meaning they were both blue. 

After trying them on, I walked to the counter with my 80% off discounted jeans. The clerk scanned my jeans and said, “With tax, that will be $32.57.” 

“Oh, I’m sorry,” I said as if I should be apologizing. “But those were on the 80% off rack.”

“Yes,” she replied, “Those jeans were originally $85.”

“$85?!” I gasped. “That’s a lot for jeans!”

“Yes, Sir,” she smirked as if I had just offered to pay with S & H green stamps. “Jeans have gone up in price, uh, recently.” 

“Wait a minute,” I said. “If these jeans are 80% off of $85, wouldn’t they be $17 before tax?”

“Sir,” she replied with a look that said shut up and pay, “Those jeans were on the wrong rack. They are discounted but not a full 80%. Now, there’s a line, so tell me, do you still want them?”

“Yes,” I answered in the voice of someone who has a stack of AARP invitation letters next to his chair, “But it’s entirely unheard of!”

Anyway, I’m headed back to the thrift store next week. Here’s to being 55 and up.

*Photo courtesy of Ashkan Forouzani

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My Mama Told Me: A Proverbs 31 Sermon

Recently, I had the opportunity to build out a sermon based on Proverbs 31. I’ll post it below. I hope you find it helpful.

MY MAMA TOLD ME (MAMA’S WISDOM)

Proverbs 31:1-31

  • Proverbs 31 is often held up as a standard for Christian women.
  • “The sayings of King Lemuel contain this message, which his mother taught him.” (Proverbs 31:1)
  • Most of Proverbs is attributed to King Solomon, but Proverbs 31 was based on the sayings of King Lemuel, which were originally spoken to him by his mother.
  • A “wise man” heeds the words of his Mother.
  • What lessons can Men, Women, and Children learn from the sayings of King Lemuel’s mother that are helpful for us today?

Proverbs 31 Helps Us Understand the: ACTIONS OF A GODLY MAN

  • What are some of the actions of a Godly Man?
  • Proverbs 31 tells us that a Godly Man Searches for a Godly Wife.
    • “O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows, do not waste your strength on women, on those who ruin kings.” (Proverbs 31:2-3)
    • “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life.” (Proverbs 31:10-11)
    • “Her husband praises her: ‘There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all! (Proverbs 31:28-29)
  • Proverbs 31 tells us that a Godly Man Lives a Godly Life.
    • Living a godly life includes avoiding intoxication. 
    • “It is not for kings, O Lemuel, to guzzle wine. Rulers should not crave alcohol. For if they drink, they may forget the law and not give justice to the oppressed. (Proverbs 31:4-5)
    • “Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit.” (Ephesians 5:18)
    • Living a godly life means developing a good reputation.
    • “Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with other civic leaders.” (Proverbs 31:23)
    • Sitting at the city gates in Biblical times meant you were a leader, a decision maker, an influential man, and an administrator of justice. 
    • Living a godly life means supporting justice for the poor and oppressed.
    • “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed. Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless, and see that they get justice.” (Proverbs 31:8-9) 
    • Jesus – “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, for He has anointed Me to bring Good News to the poor. He has sent Me to proclaim that captives will be released, that the blind will see, that the oppressed will be set free…” (Luke 4:18)

Proverbs 31 Helps Us Understand The: ACTIONS OF A GODLY WOMAN

  • What are some of the actions of a Godly Woman?
  • A Godly Woman is Virtuous.
    • “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10)
    • “Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” (Proverbs 31:11-12) 
  • A Godly Woman is Industrious
    • “She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar. She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a vineyard. She is energetic and strong, a hard worker. She makes sure her dealings are profitable; her lamp burns late into the night. (Proverbs 31:13-18)
  • A Godly Woman Provides for her Family and Cares for Others.
    • “She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes.” (Proverbs 31:20-21) 
  • A Godly Woman is Spiritually Mature
    • “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.” (Proverbs 31:25-26)
    • A godly woman is strong and courageous, filled with integrity, and always dignified. She is filled with faith in the Lord and is not anxious about what’s to come. Wisdom and kindness permeate her words and actions. 

Proverbs 31 Helps Us Understand the: ACTIONS OF GODLY CHILDREN

  • What are some of the actions of Godly Children?
  • Godly Children Bless Their Mothers.
    • “Her children stand and bless her.” (Proverbs 31:28)
    • “Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” (Exodus 20:12)
    • Jesus set a great example by showing respect for His mother from the cross.
    • “When Jesus saw His mother standing there beside the disciple He loved, He said to her, ‘Dear woman, here is your son.’ And He said to this disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from then on this disciple took her into his home.” (John 19:26-27)
  • Godly Children Honor All Godly Women.
    • “Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” (Proverbs 31:30)
    • “Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.” (Proverbs 31:31)
    • Proverbs 31 women are worthy of the rewards they receive.
  • The Lord expects us all to respect and honor the godly women in our lives.
  • Who are the godly women in my life I can honor today?

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